How is your work on the Law of Attraction going? Have you done steps 1 and 2?  Here’s a quick re-cap of the first two steps:

• Step 1:  Identify your Desire:  Use contrasting thoughts to help you decide what you really do desire.
• Step 2:  Give your Desire Attention:  Reword your affirmations to make them feel better.

These ideas are excerpts from Michael J. Losier’s book “Law of Attraction:  The Science of Attracting More of What You Want and Less of What You Don’t”. 

So, today:  Step 3:  Allowing.

Sounds simple doesn’t it?  Just allow the Law of Attraction to happen!  Whew… that was easy, guess I’m done!

Well, maybe not.

For me, the allowing part is actually the most difficult.  Mr. Losier says that most people just don’t understand this step – that’s probably very true.  However, even after reading his book and all his good ideas, this step was (is) still a difficult one for me.

As I said in part 2, basically the Law of Attraction works on the principal of what you’re currently focusing on you attract more of.  It doesn’t matter if this focus is conscious or unconscious.  Just when we think the Law of Attraction ISN’T working to get us what we want – it really is – we’re just sending the wrong message without even realizing it!

Well, in part 3, we’ve figured out how to feel better about what we’re desiring, but we haven’t tackled the unconscious thoughts we all have when we seem to be “wishing” for something.  “Wishing” implies that it’s an unlikely possibility, but remotely possible.  This is where the Law of Attraction blocker, Doubt, comes in.

As soon as you have any doubts about whether this desire is really going to happen for you, you’re blocking or at least inhibiting the Law of Attraction from attracting what you desire.

Remove any doubt = Law of Attraction attracts what you desire.

How do you remove the doubt?

Mr. Losier suggests using third person statements to reword blocking statements.  He also gives a great hint as to how to determine your blocking statements or limiting beliefs.  He says that your limiting beliefs can be found in a statement where you use the word “because” or “I can’t because…”.  For example, I have a tendency to say to myself “I can’t lose weight because I’m just built this way.”

So, Mr. Losier’s suggestion is to rewrite these limiting beliefs – but do this in the third person.  For example, I would reword mine to say something like: “Millions of people lose weight and become healthier everyday.”

Here is where I’d like to add my own little touch.  I’ve added the phrase “even me!” to the end of these statements – to make them feel more real to me.  So my new statement would be: “Millions of people lose weight and become healthier everyday – even me!”

You can do this with ANY aspect of your life: finances, relationships, school, etc…

Tomorrow I want to wrap up this discussion by giving you some examples of how I’ve seen the Law of Attraction at work in my life.

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